Patience means holding back in your inclination to express your emotions when somebody upsets you or makes you angry, or when something causes you to become fearful. Don’t repress or frustrate yourself. Just take a deep breath and go into a calm internal space and be patient long enough to logically consider your response.
Ask yourself: How do I respond in my best interest? Don’t attempt to be right, don’t act irrationally and don’t say things you will regret later. The idea is to win the game. Consider nothing else.
The young martial arts student is taught to keep his mind like calm water because in the reflection he will perceive everything within striking range. The student also learns that anger muddies the water, increases his odds of losing and puts him at a distinct disadvantage because he can no longer think clearly.
Practice being patient when you are inclined to extreme emotions, such as anger, fear, adoration and anxiety. Connect your index finger and thumb in the circular “mudra” position as a reminder to be patient when you are tempted to act or speak too fast.
Peace and Light,
Have you ever noticed, that some of the most deserving people seem to avoid karmic retribution more often than not? You watch them do things and think, “Wow, he’s going to have karma to pay for doing that!” But you notice that he doesn’t seem to have to pay the piper. You think to yourself, “If I had done that, my karma would have come due the following week.”
My wife Roberta mentioned her instant-karma whenever she lost her patience while driving. Straight away she finds herself behind a slow driver; or when she is frustrated with something going on, her guide has gently reminded her it will bother her until it doesn’t. On the opposite side, a couple people we know who are sociopaths seem to be living the high life without consequences for their actions.
Not too long ago, Roberta began to question my whole concept of Karma because she wondered why “all the good people,” as she described them, seemed have their actions come back to them within a very short period of time and how the worst among us were not faced with their consequential tests sometimes for years. Her Spirit Guide pointed out that “the good people” were on a different Karmic Wheel than “the bad people.” There are, in fact, two sets of laws that govern Karma; one that is centered around love and the other, fear.
The Karmic Wheel of Love
Cause and effect: "As you sow, so shall you reap." If you throw a rock in the lake, you are the cause and the splash is the effect…and the splash now becomes the cause of the ripples, which are an effect. Before you, there was the volcanic eruption that created the rock, and there was the river that carried it downstream…and so it goes, back into infinity.
The chain of cause and effect traces everything that has ever happened in the universe back to some original cause. The effects you are reaping now, both positive and negative, are the results of causes from this lifetime or from previous lifetimes. The seeds (causes) you are sowing now will bring forth the effects yet to come in this lifetime or future lifetimes. Your entire life, your state of mind, health, relationships with others, money you have or haven't made…all are effects. Somewhere in your background, these effects were set into motion by causes that were set into motion by your mind.
Karma works both ways—it rewards as well as punishes. I don't like the word punish, for a negative event or situation in your life is really only an opportunity. The event is not important; what is important is how you react to the event, what you think about what has happened. If you react in a positive way, you are erasing your karma. You have learned your past lesson; you have learned wisdom and wisdom erases karma. If you respond to the event in a negative way, with bitterness, remorse, or desire for revenge, you have not learned your lesson, and sometime in your future, you will have another chance to come up against the "opportunity." When I say future, I mean this lifetime or a future lifetime. Until we have learned from the past, we are destined to repeat it. Learning is the process of remembering the past.
Every mistake, every failure, is really a success. We achieve true success only by learning from our failures. If you fell off a bike twenty times before you succeeded in riding it, you needed twenty failures to learn to succeed. The sooner you fall twenty times, the sooner you succeed.
If there is meaning to life beyond that which we can substantiate with science, then there must be a reason or plan. Logically, it follows that justice exists as part of such a plan. But look around you—instead of justice, you see greed, dishonesty and manipulation rewarded, and there is simply no explanation for the cruel injustice that is evidenced everywhere.
Organized religion would have us believe that if we're good, we'll go to heaven. And if we're bad we go below. Let's examine this concept with an example of inequality: Once upon a time, there was a little girl who was born into a well-to-do and happy family. She grew up to marry a good man and lived a happy, healthy life. She had several children and died a peaceful death at an old age. Now, let's look at another child, a girl who is born into poverty. She is crippled, never experiences happiness and dies a lingering, painful death at an early age. Religion says that she will find her reward in heaven. Does that mean that the other girl, who had a happy and full life, is to be punished or find lesser rewards in heaven? Or if both find the same heaven, how can the life of misery be justified?
Karma, being totally just, fully explains the supposed inequality. The crippled girl needed to learn some lessons from the sad life, or she needed to balance something she had done in a previous incarnation.
Perhaps she lived a lifetime as a woman in the 1890's in London, where she gave birth to a child she didn't want. She maintained the child for three months, until life became hard for her. At that time, she simply abandoned her baby without ensuring his proper care. As a result, the baby contracted a lung disease, which eventually resulted in death at an early age. From a karmic perspective, this woman needed to learn what it felt like to be an unwanted child, and to experience some of the pain she had so thoughtlessly inflicted on another. Thus she incarnated as the crippled girl previously described. Yet no one needs to literally experience "an eye for an eye" if they can learn through understanding and love.
What about heaven and hell? This indicates there is a dividing line. If you are just good enough, you'll make it to heaven; a few degrees less good and you go to hell. The metaphysical belief is that heaven and hell are your own making here on earth or on the other side. The devil is a fear-based morality concept used to control masses of people. If you need fear to keep you in line, you can accept it—and, in fact, create a very real devil in your life. Yet it exists only because you give it power.
We are conditioned to learn through pain. We touch a hot stove and burn our fingers. We touch it again and burn our fingers again. After several encounters with the stove, we come to know intuitively—due to our painful past experiences—that hot stoves are not to be touched.
What if you first met your current mate in ancient China and the relationship was violent and painful. And then you reincarnated together in early Rome and again experienced extremely negative interaction. In thirteenth-century England, you went another round together. And so it has gone, lifetime after lifetime, until now. Here you are, back together again, and it's a lot better than it was in ancient China. You still fight and cause each other unnecessary anxiety, but you are still learning. Intuitively, you remember the past pain and attempt to avoid inflicting it on each other again. In a few more lifetimes, you might evolve beyond the negativity and share a happy, fulfilling relationship.
It is sad that we believe we have to learn this way when it is possible to learn through understanding, love and wisdom. Wisdom erases karma. The acceptance and incorporation of the Master of Life philosophy into your life assists you to begin to rise above fear and negativity, and open to expressing unconditional love.
"How Shall I Escape From The Wheel Of Birth And Death?"
The Master Replied, "Who Put You Under Restraint?"
The Mind Is Its Own Place, And Of Itself Can Make A Heaven Of Hell, A Hell Of Heaven.
Reincarnation and Karma
According to a 2001 Gallup pole (http://www.gallup.com/poll/16915/Three-Four-Americans-Believe-Paranormal.aspx) three in four Americans believe in reincarnation, and I’ll bet it’s even higher today. I’ve made the following statement to most of my seminar participants and students and they have all agreed:
Karma is the Supreme Universal Law and the very basis of our reality.
Most of the world believes in karma or another term or word that means the same thing. In ancient Egypt, it was called "ma'at," in Greek, "heimarmene" or "fate" and in Germanic, "wyrd."In Christianity, one example of karma is from Galatians 6:7– “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” In the Jewish faith, the person who causes suffering will pay for it, but that there is a way to go above the system through right action and asking for God to intervene.
There is one all-important point that really needs to be made here… karma either is or it isn’t. There is no halfway karma. This world is either a random universe or there is meaning to life. We either evolved out of the sea and our life is meaningless or THERE IS A PLAN BEHIND ALL OF THIS!
If there is a plan, it would seem to follow there is an Intelligence behind the plan, and if this is the case, then justice has to be a part of it. But look around you. Where is there justification for the misery and inequality we see around us? How can you justify child abuse, starvation, victims of crime, insane situations we hear about on TV, or people ripping others off and getting away with it?
Karma can explain it all. There is no other philosophy than can. None. Karma is a multi-life debit and credit system that offers total justice. I like to explain karma like throwing a stone in a lake. You see the initial impact, then the ripples go out and back until the pond returns to its tranquil state.
Similarly, all your thoughts and actions disturb the balanced harmony of the universe. Everything you do creates vibrations (that flow out and back as a stone thrown in the lake.) Lifetime after lifetime you create positive and negative karma you must balance out. One aspect of the Law of Karma is that karma will react on you with the same force you set it into motion. And karma is constantly in motion at every level of your body and mind.
Everything you think, say and do creates or erases karma AND this includes the motive, intent and desire behind every thought and action.
The unerring Law of Cause and Effect is that your karma is always adjusting and balancing as a result of your free choices. Every condition in your current life equals the karma you have generated up to this moment: your body, weight and health; relationships; lack of relationships; your parents; your success; everything. Neither God nor the Lords of Karma bestow your suffering. You and you alone are responsible. You are your own Judge and Jury. You have no one to blame for anything, for you created it all as karmic tests.
When planning your life, you created situations that seem like punishments while other situations are there to test you. Who in your past really made life difficult for you? Did you respond with love, positive thoughts, and compassion? Then you most likely passed by rising above your difficult behavior. If you reacted negatively by blaming, you will go through the situation again, maybe with the same characters, maybe with others who represent the same experience for you.
“You will not be punished for your anger; you will be punished by your anger.” Buddha
You were born with a package of karma you desired to experience. From a higher perspective, your experience is unimportant, only your reaction to the experience is important. Even if we are brave and want to take on many experiences to balance your karma, you do have Guides and other Spirit Helpers around you for your pre-birth planning who might suggest you take it a little easier. They can only make suggestions as it’s always up to you to decide your life’s path.
In addition to the karma you bring into life, you are creating new karma every day, good and bad. And you pay it off everyday! There is also karma yet unknown to you stored up from your past lives, waiting for a suitable opportunity to discharge itself. This could happen later in your current life, or in one of your next incarnations.
The Law of Grace supersedes the Law of Karma. I have always put it this way: “Wisdom Erases Karma.” By you giving love, grace and mercy, you receive love, grace and mercy in return. Your positive and loving thoughts and actions go to cancel your stored up bad karma. So maybe it’s time to think about how to be more positive, loving, giving, and compassionate. Find ways to help others and ways to serve the planet.
I’ve used the words “good” and “bad” karma, but the terms, “harmony” and “disharmony” reflect my metaphysical idea of what karma is. Harmony is your positive, loving thoughts and actions, while disharmony is your negative, fear-based thoughts and actions.
The only cause of “disharmony” is fear. Selfishness, jealousy, guilt, hate, envy, anger, greed, possessiveness, desire for revenge, need to control, prejudice, egotism, vanity, resentment, anxiety. You get the idea.
Sadly, we seem to learn fastest through fear, which is another way of saying pain. This is not learning through grace or wisdom. The fastest way we seem to learn is directly through actual experience; through the consequences or our actions. We learn through pain, until we finally get it right.
It would be better if we could learn through love! Let me simplify this all down: Karma seeks to restore your disturbed equilibrium and returning you to a state of harmony, regardless if you consciously want it or not. You can do this the hard way (pain and fear) or the easy way (love, grace, and mercy). We are here on earth because as Spirits, we desire to evolve. To do this we must learn love and acceptance and rise above the effect of fear.
Karma has three general areas: 1) Self-test karma; 2) self-punishment karma; and 3) self-reward karma. From a larger perspective, all karma is self-test. Sometimes a soul will combine self-test with reward giving them easy wealth and fame. But the test is, how do they handle this?
There are five basic categories of Karma:
Suffering exists; it has a cause; it has an end; and it has a cause to bring about its end. As Buddha told us in his Four Noble Truths, life on Earth includes suffering. We can suffer through relationship problems; loss of loved-ones; loneliness; sickness; accidents; guilt; monetary hardships; fear-based emotions and unfulfilled desires. Because you desire things to be different than they are, you experience distress. You suffer because you crave to possess, control and keep forever things, which are essentially impermanent. In short, it is your resistance to “What Is” that causes your suffering and by “suffering” I mean everything that doesn’t work in your life.
The majority of us are individuals born from our Soul’s creation with a definite purpose on the same karmic wheel of love. We desire spiritual growth, in some way or another, and live with the laws of karma.
Roberta and I wake up everyday with love at the center of our core. We base all thoughts and actions on love, we surround ourselves with love and our work is based on loving our fellow human beings. Imagine waking up everyday where all thoughts were centered on fear? To base very decision and action you make solely to protect yourself from all the enemies you perceive? According to Roberta’s guide, there is that small portion of living beings who are not individuals; who did not plan their life; and who are put here for our benefit.
The Karmic Wheel of Fear
Just to clarify, every living person on earth is given God’s spark of life, and therefore even those who are bound by the second karmic wheel of fear, have the opportunity to turn to God and become one with the light.
Who are on the karmic wheel of fear? Sociopaths, Psychopaths and all the evil people here on Earth. Sometimes called Shadow People, the Dark Side, and many other names as well. For simplification I will refer to these individuals as “Sociopaths” and evil in the spirit world as the “Dark Side.”
Clients who are dealing with sociopathy in their life are usually in a state of confusion. Sociopaths live to upset and cause chaos because they need the stimulation. Think of this group as being a dark hole in the universe collapsing in on itself. It is not creating and expanding as God’s Universe does, but rather it needs to feed on the light to exist.
Each one of us “good guys” comes into the world knowing we will be dealing with this dark energy on School Earth. We will experience sociopaths on many levels during our lifetime: internationally and nationally; in business we may deal with dark business associates; some have bad neighbors and so-called friends; even loved ones and family members.
Martha Stout, Ph.D. in her book, “The Sociopath Next Door”— says, “one in every twenty-five Americans--4 percent of our population—is a sociopath.”
A Couple of Traits of a Sociopath
Sociopaths do not have feelings. They only know how to mimic feelings to get what they want. They will be after power, money or sex, and usually all three.
They will create a persona their victim will desire and will be charming at first, projecting whatever image necessary to hook their “victim.” In relationships, they will want to cement the deal through early pregnancy to keep the attachment for a lifetime. This is especially hard on the children, who will have difficulties accepting that their sociopathic parent does not love them. After the sociopath feels they’ve got them ensnared, they will let some of their guard down and become the self-centered person they really are—after all, it takes energy to wear a mask. Sociopaths are users, and have no love for anyone other than themselves and will make people wait for them, especially their victim, as a way to exert power over them.
Sociopaths are thrill-seekers and love to do things to push boundaries—especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable. There are many sociopaths in high-powered jobs or in the places of power, such as the Government, who do not feel the need to follow the rules to get where they are going. They are, in their minds, above the silly laws we all live under and can get ahead because they cheat and do things we would not do, all for the thrill of the chase. Sociopaths feel they are better than everyone else, use bullying tactics to get their way and don’t believe rules apply to them—they are above societal laws.
Roberta also believes hoarders have the traits of sociopathy. They do not have the connection to humans that they have for material possessions. Sociopaths can hoard more than just material goods as we’ve seen obsessions with keeping friends after a divorce, or having the children only for themselves as two examples.
Sociopaths have disdain for anyone who gets in their way or sees through them. They are narcissus and usually are fearful of aging, may be drawn to dark occult, such as witchcraft to further their powers. Their life is a game to win, whatever the prize may be.
Splitting up with a Sociopath is extremely difficult. They want everything and will use whatever means to push you into giving it to them. You will have to decide what it’s worth. They will want your children and friends to side with them, and they will want all material possession. They tell everyone that they are Victims of your cruelty, when in fact they are the perpetrators of the hell you will find yourself in.
Sociopath’s brains do not function in the same manner as ours. There are dark patches in their brains.
“Can you spot evil in an X-ray?
You can, at least according to a German scientist who claims an "evil patch" is visible in brain scans of criminals.
Dr. Gerhard Roth, a neurologist and professor at the University of Bremen, told London's Daily Mail that he discovered a dark mass near the front of the brain in scans of people with criminal records.
"When you look at the brain scans of hardened criminals, there are almost always severe shortcomings in the lower forehead part of the brain," Roth said. "There are cases where someone becomes criminal as a result of a tumor or an injury in that area, and after an operation to remove the tumor, that person was completely normal again."
He added, "This is definitely the region of the brain where evil is formed and where it lurks."
Roth is not alone in his belief that brain scans can reveal psychopathic tendencies.
Kent Kiehl, associate professor of psychology at the University of New Mexico, for one, used a mobile MRI unit to conduct brain scans on 2,000 prison inmates in Wisconsin and New Mexico.
Kiehl found similar patterns in their brain scans. “If you have different behavior, you’re going to have a different brain," he said at a 2012 lecture at Duke University”
Roberta’s Spirit Guide told her of this dark-patch phenomena years ago when she was explaining why a sociopath does not see circumstances in the same light as you and I do. We think the truth is pretty cut and dry. If we witnessed an event, we can retell it the way it happened. A Sociopath will not see it the same way. They will make up something and be so convincing, you might begin to question yourself. The light gets bent in their brains to deflect the light and the truth. They then use a technique called, mirroring. For example, if you see something they are doing as wrong, they will come up with scenarios that show you are doing just what you are accusing them of doing. It won’t ever be their fault—they will always bend the truth so that you are the one who is doing whatever it is they are actually doing to you.
Married to a Sociopath
How is it we run into, deal with and even marry a dark entity? We know we plan our lives and place these people in them on purpose. Think of all the learning you will achieve being married to a sociopath versus being married to a loving spouse! The effects of being married to a sociopath causes great destruction. There are so many warning signs, but it has always astounds us that the light person will go ahead and marry them anyway. We attribute this to Soul Destiny.
Jack married Susan in the early 1980s after three other failed marriages. She was young, pretty and had her sights on him. She was lazy and used her looks to find a victim who would allow her to acquire fame and fortune without having to work at it. Susan loved having pictures of herself and practiced at it in front of her mirror to such extent that she landed a job as a model. What Jack didn’t know was that she was also working as a S & M prostitute in Las Vegas.
Jack had grown up in the 1960s and was open to sex without boundaries. Susan convinced him to marry her—promising an open marriage with as much sex as he could possibly want and more. Not surprisingly, they had two children right away. The biggest hint here is that Susan wasn’t capable of being a normal wife. She never let Jack see her true self. She couldn’t afford to. She needed to secure a place in Jack’s life quickly by becoming pregnant to tie Jack to her permanently.
Susan was very good at deceiving Jack. Sociopaths are born mimics and manipulators. They are also able to put branches into their victim’s energy centers to feed off of them. They are like black holes—they do not create but suck the life out of the light people. Creation happens in the light—black holes collapse in on themselves. Susan showed no signs of love, and finally Jack began to notice that this great marriage was one-sided. Susan had done whatever she had wanted, and if she didn’t get her way, she threw a fit and caused so much chaos, everyone did whatever she wanted to end the turmoil.
As she aged, Susan became obsessed with her looks. She did everything she could to attract lovers and flaunt them in front of Jack. He’d had enough and told her their marriage was over. Sure, that was fine with her. But she had no intensions of letting him get off the hook. She wanted Jack to support her for the rest of her life.
Jack came to us searching for answers. He had found a woman who he’d fallen madly in love with, but Susan still would not give him a divorce after 10 years of separation. He was working himself to death, but Susan seemed to spend more and more to the point where he had gone through his entire savings trying to keep her happy. Jill hated Jack’s new love, and from an outsider’s perception, it was obvious she was jealous and dug her heals in even further. Jack couldn’t get on with his life, but still, he didn’t blame Susan for his problems.
Jack had sought answers through Astrology. His Astrologer showed him that what he was going through had been written in his chart. As pointed out earlier, encounters with Sociopaths are written in for our spiritual growth. We will attach our lives with a Sociopath for learning purposes. Jack’s Astrologer gave him this information, but didn’t give him a way out of what he was going through.
Jack went to see a Psychologist who explained Susan’s behavior in medical terms, but again, this approach did not help Jack with his immediate problems. Jack came to us still looking for answers. It is hard to admit you’ve been taken for a fool, or so it feels to the person married to a sociopath. But to get Jack to understand he chose this path and he was destined to marry Susan gave him a clear understanding that he was dealing with a known deceiver and a plan on how to deal with her was formed. Get away! but do it without causing negative karma for yourself. Just know this is only a test and proceed with caution.
The frustrating thing about this system is how secretive it is. How much easier it would be if we could tell who was on our wheel of love and watch out for all those who lived lives based on fear. This would not benefit us, as hard as this is to believe. We each are given the opportunity to live with one of these dark spirits, and it seems that the more they affect you in a negative way, the higher you actually are on your spiritual path. Often times, as is Roberta’s case, you deal with more than one major pain-in-the-ass per lifetime. Each time you gain more and more knowledge, which ultimately leads you to helping others when you recognize what they are dealing with. After a while, you can just spot them and know that what is best for you is to learn your lessons and get as far away from them as possible. Can those who are on the karmic wheel of fear be redeemed? So many good people think they can help them, but chances are, you can’t.
The Dark Side
No one wants to talk about the dark side, especially in the New Age and Metaphysical field. There is a mentality of, “if you think about it, it will be drawn to you,” which to a degree is true, but when you are in a hypnotherapy practice, it comes out of no where and you have to deal with it. Unfortunately, Roberta and I have had to find the best way to deal with the dark side since it showed it’s ugly head in both our personal and professional lives.
When Roberta came into my practice, it opened up a new level in my hypnotherapy. Being a born Medium, Roberta could see and hear the spirit activity around our clients. Roberta was not expecting to run into the dark side. Our first encounter was in a hotel during one of our early road trips. A young woman had come to see us because her life was not going well. Her boyfriend was doing drugs and she wanted to get away from him, but he controlled their money and she felt helpless to leave. After putting her into hypnosis, we began our session. She had come for a Metaphysical Examination, whereby we explore three lives most affecting her before contacting her Higher Self using my Spirit Contact Therapy™ process. I suspected there were unseen influences and it was at this point that Roberta lurched back in her chair and had a strange look on her face. At the same time our client began screaming, “Get him away from me! Take him away!” I calmed our client down, but I didn’t know what was going on.
Roberta hurriedly wrote, “A shape-shifter, a shadow person just came out from behind her—a black blob charged at me, growling at me trying to scare me.” She scribbled another note, “At the exact same time I saw a column of white light coming up as a barrier around the two of us, which caused the dark shadow to retreat back behind her. Archangel Michael entered the room, surrounded her with his wings and the dark shadow vanished.” It was intense and I hoped other hotel guests hadn’t heard our client’s loud screams.
Since that time, when Archangel Michael shows up before a session, we’re know what we’re in for.
Roberta and I had a case where a dark spirit who first came to earth in Atlantean times (a son of Benial?) begged God for forgiveness. After many earth years, the spirit awakened and was ready to begin the task of moving from the karmic wheel of fear to the karmic wheel of love. He first came back to Earth in Ghost-form to roam the Earth alone. He was shown many atrocities to witness what evil does to good people. He was not yet in charge of his time on Earth as it was still up to the Council or Lords of Karma. After a sufficient amount of years, he was given the opportunity to begin his climb up the spiritual ladder by planning and incarnating on his own. His lessons at first were small so he would not give up and fall back to hell, so to speak. By the time we were in session with him, he had lived hundreds of lifetimes, mostly filled with paying off his karmic debts. He seemed to know he was walking a thin line; that he could falter and be lost again if he didn’t get this right.
Roberta and I contact our Spirit Guides and helpers to find answers on a regular basis. We spent many hours in prayer and meditation to discover why we live with the dark side, what they are all about and how to deal with them. We consulted our close friend, Rosemary Ellen Guiley, who is an expert in Angels and Demons and has written many books on the subject, to help us help our clients. Some interesting facts about the dark side lives have come forward.
We discovered that these dark souls do not have any where near the number of lifetimes most people experience. No parallel lifetimes, plus most had lived hundreds of years as either ghosts or entity attachments. One known sociopath thought she had incarnated as a King of England, only to discover she actually was an earthbound entity-attachment residing in the King’s body.
How are sociopaths and the dark side placed in our lives? Our action may bring them in or it’s karmically set-up that we need to learn about them so we can help others. Rulers in the kingdom of darkness believe they have the power and dominion over Earth, but what our Guides told us is that although they do roam the earth causing havoc and hell, communicating with these dark souls, there is only ONE POWER, the power of God, which we can all agree upon. The dark only has perceived power, in other words, it’s all an illusion. Earth is not an illusion, evil and fear are. Sociopaths give out the illusion of power over you through fear. An observation Roberta and I have made is the dark soul who is placed on Earth, as opposed to planning their life, seem to have a Mission—a goal of affecting a person or many people’s lives in a negative way. To integrate into their victim’s lives, they are cunning, charming and can morph into whatever their victim desires. After their Mission is over, they slide down in to their true vibrational rate and begin to attract lower-entities with the same rate as their own. Their life, then begins to fall apart.
Let’s use Jack and Susan as an example. Susan, the sociopath, came to life with a Mission to marry Jack. She spent time observing Jack to find out what he desired in a woman, then acted out in a most charming way, (Roberta has always said that sociopaths come in pretty packages). They married, had children right away and years later, after Susan felt she had what she wanted and could afford to drop her masks, they came apart and divorced, thus ending her Mission. Now Susan’s vibrational rate energy is attracting lower entities into her life. With fear as the basis of all her decisions and motivations, she doesn’t trust anyone. She continues to hunt for people to use, however she is only attracting others who are doing the same thing to her, thus her life is spiraling out of control.
We could write a dozen of these stories because we’ve seen this pattern play out over and over again. There are so many different types of dark energies, Bill Baldwin called them “Dark Force Entities.” David Icke has been writing about them for years and a lot of people think he’s out there. Roberta and I are beginning to think he's right. From what we can tell, Light Workers outshine the dark side and we have the power and ability to overcome all their evil. And the good news is? Even though we have been shown our Earth system is like the Ying/Yang symbol of 50/50 dark to light, our side is made from God and is all powerful so we really have nothing to fear.
Do you know someone who thinks they’re always right? No matter the situation, they are the final word? It will help you to understand they were programmed to be exactly the way they are. And you can use the knowledge to your advantage.
Your subconscious mind is a memory bank and operates very much like a computer. It’s programmed for survival and for you to be “right.” Everything you consider saying or doing is quickly run through your data banks, comparing the present to related past experiences. Your computer then approves your actions as compared to the past, for in the past you “survived.”
Computers are logically programmed machines and cannot be wrong. To be wrong is a malfunction. If your subconscious computer allowed you to be wrong, its survival is threatened. So, the only way it can work is to make you feel correct. It does not reason and it does not care if you get what you want out of life. It just needs to be right to protect itself, even if you lose the game.
To rise above this programming, learn to be aware of your programming so you can detach from the buttons that cause you to act like a robot. A robot has no choice in the way it acts. It has wiring and circuits that are set so when a button is pushed, it reacts according to programming. In many areas of your life you’re programmed the same way. When your button is pushed you need to be right. Even if you’re not right, you’ll find some way to justify yourself. Only those with enlightened awareness of how human beings work understand this. Winning the game is far more satisfying than getting to be right.
Years ago I had the following discussion in one of my seminars:
“Can the need to be right come from past-life programming?” asked Anita, a pretty woman in her mid-twenties.
“We are all programmed to need to be right, just as we’re programmed to stand and walk on our feet,” I replied. “But an excessive need to be right might go back to a past-life cause.”
“But what do you do? My fiancé has to be right about everything, all the time. No one else is ever right. It’s enough to drive you nuts.” She rolled her eyes at the ceiling.
“Do you want to remain with him?”
“Of course, I love him.”
“Then you’d better develop an enlightened attitude allowing him to be right while you win the game. You have to learn to override your own ‘rightness’ button. Knowing how he is programmed to function, you can let him be right. Remember, unless you allow him to be right, his survival is threatened and there is going to be trouble. So you can quickly allow him to be right with a phrase such as, ‘I understand how you feel.’ In so doing, you learn to override your own ‘rightness’ button. Knowing how he is programmed to function, you can let him be right. You’re not admitting he is right, you’re just taking him off ‘tilt.’ His survival will no longer be threatened and he can concentrate upon the problem.”
Winning the game is far more satisfying than getting to be right.
Peace & Light, Dick Sutphen